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Give care to a Tetraplegic on the scenic Island of Vir
- Belgian
- Age 44
- Has pets
- Spiritual - Not Religious
- Our household smokes
- Will accept smokers
- Is a single male employer
Our Family
- 2 yrs paid experience required
- 35 to 40 hours/week
- English is required
- Driver's license required
- Car is available
- Pay is $301-$400/wk
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Job Description
In my quest for an assistant, the role I envision is much like the dynamic depicted in the movie "Les Intouchables." If you haven’t seen it, I highly recommend it. The film beautifully portrays the profound bond and mutual growth between Philippe, a wealthy quadriplegic, and Driss, his caregiver, highlighting not just the assistance provided but the genuine companionship and adventure they share.
As my helper, your responsibilities would include:
Personal Care: Assisting with daily routines such as dressing, bathing, and other personal hygiene tasks.
Mobility Assistance: Helping me transfer from my bed to the toilet, shower, or wheelchair. To make this easier, I have a ceiling lift installed in my room, which facilitates these transfers without any physical effort.
Household Tasks: Performing light housekeeping duties, meal preparation, and ensuring the home environment is comfortable and safe.
Medical Assistance: Managing medications, attending medical appointments with me, and being aware of any health-related needs or emergencies.
Companionship: Engaging in meaningful conversations, participating in activities together, and sometimes simply being present. Your role is not just about the physical tasks but also about forming a supportive and positive relationship.
To give you a better idea of what this role entails, here's a note from my current assistant, Arbnora:
"Hey guys,
I have been Erik's assistant for a year now, and I’d like to share a bit about what it’s like to work with him.
Firstly, you do not need to be a doctor or a nurse to do this job. The most important thing is to care and ensure Erik feels safe in your hands. Positive energy is crucial, and everything else will come naturally as you get into the daily routine.
You will handle various tasks during your stay with Erik, but he will guide you through each one. I will also be here to guide you through all the necessary work, ensuring you feel prepared and confident. We are looking forward to welcoming you for a new experience in your life."
I am a tetraplegic, meaning I have partial paralysis and limited use of my limbs. While I may not be wealthy, I have all I need: a good wheelchair, a handbike, and an Opel Movano with a lift to drive me wherever I need to go. I feel rich in mind and spirit, finding joy and fulfillment in meaningful connections and experiences.
I am looking for someone who is compassionate, patient, and has a good sense of humor. Experience is not as crucial as the willingness to learn and adapt. Just like in "Les Intouchables," the most important qualities are empathy, reliability, and the ability to connect on a personal level.
Cultural Exchange Opportunities
Living and working with me on the beautiful island of Vir provides a unique and enriching cultural exchange experience. Here are some of the opportunities you can expect:
Language Exchange: I am fluent in several languages, including English and Dutch. I am eager to help you improve your language skills, and I look forward to learning from you as well. Sharing our languages is a wonderful way to deepen our connection and mutual understanding.
Cooking and Culinary Traditions: I have a passion for cooking and enjoy preparing traditional Belgian dishes as well as exploring Croatian cuisine. Together, we can share recipes, cook meals, and learn about each other's culinary traditions. I also love gardening, and growing our own vegetables will provide fresh ingredients for our meals, especially during winter.
Nature and Outdoor Activities: The island's natural beauty offers countless opportunities for outdoor activities. Whether it's enjoying the scenic landscapes, visiting nearby islands, or engaging in my gardening projects, you will experience the tranquility and charm of island life. The microclimate of Vir, with its lush vegetation even in winter, makes it a unique place to connect with nature.
Philosophical and Intellectual Discussions: I enjoy engaging in deep conversations about life, history, and philosophy. Sharing our thoughts and perspectives can lead to enriching discussions and a better understanding of different worldviews.
Personal Growth and Reflection: Living in a serene and picturesque environment like Vir provides the perfect setting for personal reflection and growth. The time you spend here can be a journey of self-discovery and a chance to reconnect with nature and your inner self.
Working with me offers a unique opportunity to live in a beautiful location, experience new adventures, and build a meaningful bond. If you are someone who believes in the power of human connection and is eager to make a difference, I would love to hear from you.
As my helper, your responsibilities would include:
Personal Care: Assisting with daily routines such as dressing, bathing, and other personal hygiene tasks.
Mobility Assistance: Helping me transfer from my bed to the toilet, shower, or wheelchair. To make this easier, I have a ceiling lift installed in my room, which facilitates these transfers without any physical effort.
Household Tasks: Performing light housekeeping duties, meal preparation, and ensuring the home environment is comfortable and safe.
Medical Assistance: Managing medications, attending medical appointments with me, and being aware of any health-related needs or emergencies.
Companionship: Engaging in meaningful conversations, participating in activities together, and sometimes simply being present. Your role is not just about the physical tasks but also about forming a supportive and positive relationship.
To give you a better idea of what this role entails, here's a note from my current assistant, Arbnora:
"Hey guys,
I have been Erik's assistant for a year now, and I’d like to share a bit about what it’s like to work with him.
Firstly, you do not need to be a doctor or a nurse to do this job. The most important thing is to care and ensure Erik feels safe in your hands. Positive energy is crucial, and everything else will come naturally as you get into the daily routine.
You will handle various tasks during your stay with Erik, but he will guide you through each one. I will also be here to guide you through all the necessary work, ensuring you feel prepared and confident. We are looking forward to welcoming you for a new experience in your life."
I am a tetraplegic, meaning I have partial paralysis and limited use of my limbs. While I may not be wealthy, I have all I need: a good wheelchair, a handbike, and an Opel Movano with a lift to drive me wherever I need to go. I feel rich in mind and spirit, finding joy and fulfillment in meaningful connections and experiences.
I am looking for someone who is compassionate, patient, and has a good sense of humor. Experience is not as crucial as the willingness to learn and adapt. Just like in "Les Intouchables," the most important qualities are empathy, reliability, and the ability to connect on a personal level.
Cultural Exchange Opportunities
Living and working with me on the beautiful island of Vir provides a unique and enriching cultural exchange experience. Here are some of the opportunities you can expect:
Language Exchange: I am fluent in several languages, including English and Dutch. I am eager to help you improve your language skills, and I look forward to learning from you as well. Sharing our languages is a wonderful way to deepen our connection and mutual understanding.
Cooking and Culinary Traditions: I have a passion for cooking and enjoy preparing traditional Belgian dishes as well as exploring Croatian cuisine. Together, we can share recipes, cook meals, and learn about each other's culinary traditions. I also love gardening, and growing our own vegetables will provide fresh ingredients for our meals, especially during winter.
Nature and Outdoor Activities: The island's natural beauty offers countless opportunities for outdoor activities. Whether it's enjoying the scenic landscapes, visiting nearby islands, or engaging in my gardening projects, you will experience the tranquility and charm of island life. The microclimate of Vir, with its lush vegetation even in winter, makes it a unique place to connect with nature.
Philosophical and Intellectual Discussions: I enjoy engaging in deep conversations about life, history, and philosophy. Sharing our thoughts and perspectives can lead to enriching discussions and a better understanding of different worldviews.
Personal Growth and Reflection: Living in a serene and picturesque environment like Vir provides the perfect setting for personal reflection and growth. The time you spend here can be a journey of self-discovery and a chance to reconnect with nature and your inner self.
Working with me offers a unique opportunity to live in a beautiful location, experience new adventures, and build a meaningful bond. If you are someone who believes in the power of human connection and is eager to make a difference, I would love to hear from you.
Required Experience
| Must have 2 years paid experience with the following | ||
|---|---|---|
| Case Worker | Certified Nursing Assistant | Licensed RN |
| Nursing Intern | Nursing Student | Physical Therapy |
| Physician's Assistant | Practicing RN | Senior Care Companion |
| Must be experienced working with these types of special needs | ||
|---|---|---|
| Alzheimer's | Arthritis | Dementia |
| Diabetes | Digestive Disorders | Epilepsy |
| Hearing Impairment | Immobility | Obesity |
| Obsessive Compulsive Disorder | Parkinson's | Post Traumatic Stress Disorder |
| Respiratory Issues | Sleep Disorder | Visual Impairment |
| Provider must have the following skills or certifications | ||
|---|---|---|
| Behavioral Issues | Bonded | CPR |
| First Aid | Insured | Licensed |
| NAPGGM Certified | NACCM Certified | |
Must be comfortable working with 1 person
Requirements
| Must be available for the following types of visits | ||
|---|---|---|
| Drop-Ins | Day Visits | Extended Stays |
| Overnight Stays | Travel | |
| Must provide the following Senior Caregiver services | ||
|---|---|---|
| Companion Services | Home Care Services | Hospice Services |
| Live in Home Care | Medical Care | Rehabilitation Services |
| Physical Therapy | Respite Care | Visiting Nurse |
| Visiting Physician | Transportation | |
| Additional tasks I would like my Senior Caregiver to perform | ||
|---|---|---|
| Administer Shots | Bathing | Change Adult Diapers |
| Light House Cleaning | Meal Preparation | Pay Bills |
| Run Errands | Shopping | Administer Medication |
Availability
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|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
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- Available Aug 2025 - Sep 2026
- Seeking Part-time, Live In
- $301-$400/wk
- Must be available on short notice
- Last logged in 11 Sep 2025
- Member since 07 Aug 2024
Match Preferences
- 2 yrs paid experience required
- Candidates that live within worldwide
- Valid drivers license
- Spoken English is required
We require:
- Female candidates
- No Age Preference
- No preference years of education
- Candidates who are:
- - Argentinian
- - Brazilian
- - EU Nationalities
- - Austrian
- - Belgian
- - Danish
- - Dutch
- - Finnish
- - French
- - German
- - Italian
- - Norwegian
- - Portuguese
- - Spanish
- - Swedish
- - Swiss
- - Icelandic
- - Polish
- - Romanian
- - Luxembourgian
- - Bulgarian
- - Estonian
- - Greek
- - Hungarian
- - Irish
- - Lithuanian
- - Slovakian
- - Czech
- - Slovenian
- - Latvian
- - Maltese
- - Croatian
- - Cypriot
- - Monegasque
- - Filipino
- - Russian
- - Venezuelan
We prefer:
- Croatian
- Dutch
- English
- German
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