I grew up as what called by the society has a troubled child, at an young age I questioned everything before accepting blindly, and somewhere along the way, I or the same or the other side navigated towards to me. And I outgrew many things and have handled many little kids especially who came for mental wellfare . All and all, I think you should me for a few minutes atleast personally over a call, if not face to face of your comfortable . And don't mind asking me any sort of questions. I will answer all with all I know ,if not you will recieve , I have no idea on that matter but if you want ? I can get to know about and get back to you. Your handing a part of your family to be taken care . I think you have every right to ask everything and verify as well . Will meet when we meet .Good day