| Dear Au Pair, Being an aupair is a big step for both of us - we are looking for a kind, generous and happy person to be part of our family for the duration of your stay, and hopefully long after.
While we will strive to make your stay as pleasant and fulfilling as possible, we are hoping that you can provide us with the extra help we need during your stay. This is after all a job, and we hope you have set those expectations for yourself.
So let us tell you about us a bit. We, dad Filip and mom Teresa, have a little girl just over 2 years old. Her name is Alexandra, and we call her Alex for short. Alex is a wonderful little girl, she is very intelligent and also fairly low maintenance. She loves being around people that can teach her, that can laugh with her and generally share their love and happiness as she will do the same in return.
Filip travels a lot for work, so there are many days in a month when he is not around. This is where the extra help is needed, especially since we are expecting a little sibling for Alex first week of March in 2009.
We are a young, happy, accepting and liberal family. All conflicts are resolved through discussions, we do not allow nor accept yelling, screaming or any type of abuse between ourselves and those we love.
We have a zero tolerance to any kind of physical disciplinary actions. Even a light slap on the butt or a grab of the hand are not accepted. This form of punishment is very common in the USA, but as we mentioned, not accepted nor tolerated in our household. We never raise our voices to our child, instead we respect our child the same way we respect each other, and would respect you. In return, we would ask for the same respect from you.
We live in Castle Rock, CO, a smaller town about 30min drive south of Denver. Its a beautiful and peaceful place with tons of outdoors activities. We live in a 4bedroom house, and you would have your own room with a private bath and walk in closet.
In general, we like our days to be filled with laughter and joy, and we'd like for you to want the same. Life should be fun and enjoyable, every day bringing a new experience.
A normal day for Alex looks like: (not punctual by any means, just an example, so don't take the hours dead seriously) 8am breakfast 8.30am off to school - she goes to montessori school 3hours/day 5days/week 11.45am pick up from school, have lunch at home 12-2pm play and fun time 2-4pm naptime 4-6.30pm play and fun time 6.30 dinner evening activities and bedtime around 9pm
We have two cars, and when one is not in use, you'd be allowed to use them in your spare time as well. The weekends are yours to enjoy and experience, and should we need your help on a weekend, you'd be granted days off in the week.
Hope this helps bring some light unto our family, should you have more questions, than we look forward to talking further with you. |