being in his place is my worst experience for more than 2 yrs as i am aupair i joined the family on sept 18,2006 actually i joined him as his children live with their mother i have never thought though i can have such problems and somebody can be so aggressive

in oct he had a business trip for 2 weeks, i stayed in the house alone and everything was ok the house is in a very small village, no buses to some other place, no bicycle at aupair disposal, no computer-it has never happened before to me- i tried to explain i am a little bit bored and i asked him can i do work in addition for some other family- he decided he cannot trust me any more and bought a ticket for bulgaria/nov 18/ without talking to me

later we talked, agreed it was a misunderstanding, he said i have to decide to christmas how long i want to stay, he does not care about 120 euro/ the price ticket to bulgaria/he will arrange another one... i took him at his words two weeks later he bought a second ticket/dec 02/ and insist that i have to pay the both /later he paid 50% of the first ticket price/i said it is not fair, he broke his promices in the morning dec 02 i refused to get in the car unless he paid the rest of my money, my problem was not 60euro, i tried to protect myself- i am a person not a puppet in the front of his house he maltreated me, i was lying down on the ground, he was talking on the cell with a friend of his the second time he push me down on the street was in almeria, on the bus station, he left me lying there and drove away / he did not help me, he did not asked me how was my three-days trip by bus / i had great pain in my back and my chest, allover my body i had black marks and bruises / he did not say sorry

the second problem was sex, that person has no moral, no values, i asked him not to bother me...

i do not know what else to say, it still hurts very much