i spoke with a bus driver and i will be able to come on 22th of may if is ok with you.I took a look on a website with flight but to be honest i`m scared to fly...dont laughhhhhh!!!! I will feel more confortable if i will take the bus.The bus cost 150 euros and i`ll be there on 24th of may.I will need to know where exactly do u live, adress and a mobile number to text .I have to speack to the driver tomorrow to tell him where i want to drop me off.You just tell me the city, to see if he can drop me off there or in a big city closer to you.I already started to pack my stuff:)) and i have something for you and the girls.Hope you like wine:) for you...not for the girls:) Now i want to tell ou something.I have some money for the trip but are not enough.I borrowed some money from my family but still not enough.I wonder if you can help me with some money and i will pay you back first week from my salary.Hope u will agree.Is not too much is just i need some money for the trip and for the bus ticket...about 60-70 euros.I will try again to see if i can borrow more...and in case i can you will not be need to send me money, but if i cant borrow more...maybe u can help me.How are the girls?I have to go for 2-3 hours but i have my cell with me and you can call me anytime.Kisses, Julie

When we then explained that we would not forward any money but were happy to reimburse when she arrived in England the following emails arrived

I now that some flights are cheaper but the problem is that i live in IASI and is far away from Bucharest where the airport is.And the train is expensive that`s why i wanted to came by bus.The bus is leaving from Iasi so i dont need to pay for the train to go to the Bucharest. If u cant help me i will try to see what can i do but i cant promise anything cuz i had some problems in my family...my gramma just died and my mom had to spend loads of money with the funeral so now they dont have so much money to give me.Anyway i will try to see cuz i really like you and i hope everything`s gonna be ok...if not...i really dont want to think how i`m gonna be if i will not find some money.I now that some people ask for money and are not going...and i cant prove that i`m not one of them...i understand you...but my exfamily did the same think...and i`ve worked for them 3 years...so u can trust me:) I have to make some phone calles to see if i can borrow some money.I`ll be back with an answer in 30 minutes, Julie

and then

ok i will came with the plane.Can you book me the ticket?Cuz i really can borrow more.I`m scared but i dont wanna loose you. Regards, Julie

We did not respond to this last email and she has now deactivated her profile